LDR "Long Distance Relationship", loving someone from afar. Literally means loving someone in the other part of the world. Many of us are in this kind of relationship. We all know that committing yourself to someone who is physically away from you is not that easy. It takes a lot of courage to involve yourself and your heart to a person who's miles and miles away from you. LDR takes a lot of effort and a lot of care to make the relationship grow strong and stronger each day. This kind of relationship is very risky, there are a lot of factors may come along the way to test each other’s love. That's why it has a ratio of 50/50. Some relationship fails because of these factors:
1.Poor communication, communication plays a very important role in a relationship. Every couple needs to have a good communication with each other, having them near require a better communication with each other, how much more if they are in the other part of the world. It needs more time for each couple to spend more time in communicating with each other. Well, technology is very high tech now days. Just one click of the computer, phone, tablets etc. you can already find ways to talk with your love ones. It’s just a matter of time and effort. A relationship that has poor communication is a relationship with a poor foundation.
2.Misunderstanding, this factor will always be present in every relationship. But it’s more difficult to have misunderstanding specially if you’re physically away and the only conversation you have is call and text or chat. Some words may interpret the other way which your partner is trying to tell you. This makes misunderstanding become arguments. Sometimes it gets to the point of, where both sides will turn to something worst. To avoid this matter, both couple should let each other be calm first before talking the issue. Never talk or settle the issue with both hot tempers. Instead, give each other the opportunity to analyzed what the both side is trying to point out. And never talk to your partner when you are mad, you might say words you never mean. That might hurt them bad. This can make the issue bigger than you’ve thought.
3.Unfaithfulness, well unfaithfulness ruins many relationships. It destroyed the trust of your love one. Unfaithfulness is when you draw yourself into temptations. Some Long Distance Relationship failed because of this factor. It’s when one party goes beyond their limitations. It’s when one took comfort to other woman or man. How could you say you love a person if you are weak in this kind of temptation? You cannot love two people with the same percentage. If your partner has someone other than you, well honestly that other person is loved more than you. In the first place if they really love you, why find another? Just because they long for attention? Or they missed having someone beside them physically? If you really love your partner, you will never do a single mistake you know might hurt them the most. Never waste the trust of each other, because the hardest thing to gain is TRUST. You can never fix a broken glass.
There are three kinds of people involve in a Long Distance Relationship:
1. The One Who GIVE UP- some relationship ends because the one decided to give up. Giving up a relationship is not that easy. It doesn't necessarily means once a person gave up, he/she fall out of love to their partner. Some people decided to end the relationship because they've been tired of waiting. Why does one get tired of waiting? A relationship doesn't only need love and trust. The relationship needs to grow. Even you have constant communication. You need to step on the next level. Once a relationship doesn't have any concrete plans. One will surely ask, Where does this relationship goes? Waiting is Tiring. Well its true, sometimes we get to a point that we are tired waiting. Waiting without even knowing when. Hanging on a situation without any clue till when your going to hold on. And you come to realize your loosing your hands holding . Finding yourself you already given up. Sometimes people think giving up is the best thing to do rather than holding on in a clueless situation.
2. The One Standing in Between- This is the most difficult situation in a relationship. It is standing in between, standing between giving up and holding on. What does it mean. A situation where you are caught in the middle, you want to give up, but you can't. Your tired of the situation you have but you have to hold because of many reasons. Its either you love him/her so much. or your already in it, and the only left to you is standing on your decision.Difficult situation in which you can't decide where to go. Give up or Hold on.
3. The One Who is Faithfully Waiting- Patiently waiting is far different from Faithfully waiting. Faith is more deep and stronger than patience. We get tired in waiting but when faith is in us we strongly hold on. Because faith is simply saying I BELIEVE! When both couple has strong faith with their relationship both will not get tired with each other. And when they faithfully wait nothing can come between them. Distance will never be an issue, because both will find a way to make their relationship last forever. Both will take good care of the heart of each other. Once you love a person you know even the single thing that might hurt the heart that you love. How could you faithfully wait? You can never faithfully wait unless you don't have faith to our greatest creator. Faith comes from Him, Once you let him be the center of your relationship everything will follow. And your relationship will surely be safe. The secret of a relationship with s strong foundation is a relationship with GOD in the center. Let Him be the center of every relationship. You can overcome everything that might come your way. Just have FAITH!
Where do you fall from the three?
Happy Reading!! Godbless us all!!
There are three kinds of people involve in a Long Distance Relationship:
1. The One Who GIVE UP- some relationship ends because the one decided to give up. Giving up a relationship is not that easy. It doesn't necessarily means once a person gave up, he/she fall out of love to their partner. Some people decided to end the relationship because they've been tired of waiting. Why does one get tired of waiting? A relationship doesn't only need love and trust. The relationship needs to grow. Even you have constant communication. You need to step on the next level. Once a relationship doesn't have any concrete plans. One will surely ask, Where does this relationship goes? Waiting is Tiring. Well its true, sometimes we get to a point that we are tired waiting. Waiting without even knowing when. Hanging on a situation without any clue till when your going to hold on. And you come to realize your loosing your hands holding . Finding yourself you already given up. Sometimes people think giving up is the best thing to do rather than holding on in a clueless situation.
2. The One Standing in Between- This is the most difficult situation in a relationship. It is standing in between, standing between giving up and holding on. What does it mean. A situation where you are caught in the middle, you want to give up, but you can't. Your tired of the situation you have but you have to hold because of many reasons. Its either you love him/her so much. or your already in it, and the only left to you is standing on your decision.Difficult situation in which you can't decide where to go. Give up or Hold on.
3. The One Who is Faithfully Waiting- Patiently waiting is far different from Faithfully waiting. Faith is more deep and stronger than patience. We get tired in waiting but when faith is in us we strongly hold on. Because faith is simply saying I BELIEVE! When both couple has strong faith with their relationship both will not get tired with each other. And when they faithfully wait nothing can come between them. Distance will never be an issue, because both will find a way to make their relationship last forever. Both will take good care of the heart of each other. Once you love a person you know even the single thing that might hurt the heart that you love. How could you faithfully wait? You can never faithfully wait unless you don't have faith to our greatest creator. Faith comes from Him, Once you let him be the center of your relationship everything will follow. And your relationship will surely be safe. The secret of a relationship with s strong foundation is a relationship with GOD in the center. Let Him be the center of every relationship. You can overcome everything that might come your way. Just have FAITH!
Where do you fall from the three?
Happy Reading!! Godbless us all!!
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