LDR "Long Distance Relationship"

LDR "Long Distance Relationship", loving someone from afar. Literally means loving someone in the other part of the world. Many of us are in this kind of relationship. We all know that committing yourself to someone who is physically away from you is not that easy. It takes a lot of courage to involve yourself and your heart to a person who's miles and miles away from you. LDR takes a lot of effort and a lot of care to make the relationship grow strong and stronger each day. This kind of relationship is very risky, there are a lot of factors may come along the way to test each other’s love. That's why it has a ratio of 50/50. Some relationship fails because of these factors: 

1.Poor communication, communication plays a very important role in a relationship. Every couple needs to have a good communication with each other, having them near require a better communication with each other, how much more if they are in the other part of the world. It needs more time for each couple to spend more time in communicating with each other. Well, technology is very high tech now days. Just one click of the computer, phone, tablets etc. you can already find ways to talk with your love ones. It’s just a matter of time and effort. A relationship that has poor communication is a relationship with a poor foundation.

2.Misunderstanding, this factor will always be present in every relationship. But it’s more difficult to have misunderstanding specially if you’re physically away and the only conversation you have is call and text or chat. Some words may interpret the other way which your partner is trying to tell you. This makes misunderstanding become arguments. Sometimes it gets to the point of, where both sides will turn to something worst. To avoid this matter, both couple should let each other be calm first before talking the issue. Never talk or settle the issue with both hot tempers. Instead, give each other the opportunity to analyzed what the both side is trying to point out. And never talk to your partner when you are mad, you might say words you never mean. That might hurt them bad. This can make the issue bigger than you’ve thought.

3.Unfaithfulness, well unfaithfulness ruins many relationships. It destroyed the trust of your love one. Unfaithfulness is when you draw yourself into temptations. Some Long Distance Relationship failed because of this factor. It’s when one party goes beyond their limitations. It’s when one took comfort to other woman or man. How could you say you love a person if you are weak in this kind of temptation? You cannot love two people with the same percentage. If your partner has someone other than you, well honestly that other person is loved more than you. In the first place if they really love you, why find another? Just because they long for attention? Or they missed having someone beside them physically? If you really love your partner, you will never do a single mistake you know might hurt them the most. Never waste the trust of each other, because the hardest thing to gain is TRUST. You can never fix a broken glass.

There are three kinds of people involve in a Long Distance Relationship:

1. The One Who GIVE UP- some relationship ends because the one decided to give up. Giving up a relationship is not that easy. It doesn't necessarily means once a person gave up, he/she fall out of love to their partner. Some people decided to end the relationship because they've been tired of waiting. Why does one get tired of waiting? A relationship doesn't only need love and trust. The relationship needs to grow. Even you have constant communication. You need to step on the next level. Once a relationship doesn't  have any concrete plans. One will surely ask, Where does this relationship goes? Waiting is Tiring. Well its true, sometimes we get to a point that we are tired waiting. Waiting without even knowing when. Hanging on a situation without any clue till when your going to hold on. And you come to realize your loosing your hands holding . Finding yourself you already given up. Sometimes people think giving up is the best thing to do rather than holding on in a clueless situation.

2. The One Standing in Between- This is the most difficult situation in a relationship. It is standing in between, standing between giving up and holding on. What does it mean. A situation where you are caught in the middle, you want to give up, but you can't. Your tired of the situation you have but you have to hold because of many reasons. Its either you love him/her so much. or your already in it, and the only left to you is standing on your decision.Difficult situation in which you can't decide where to go. Give up or Hold on.

3. The One Who is Faithfully Waiting- Patiently waiting is far different from Faithfully waiting. Faith is more deep and stronger than patience. We get tired in waiting but when faith is in us we strongly hold on. Because faith is simply saying I BELIEVE! When both couple has strong faith with their relationship both will not get tired with each other. And when they faithfully wait nothing can come  between them. Distance will never be an issue, because both will find a way to make their relationship last forever. Both will take good care of the heart of each other. Once you love a person you know even the single thing that might hurt the heart that you love. How could you faithfully wait? You can never faithfully wait unless you don't have faith to our greatest creator. Faith comes from Him, Once you let him be the center of your relationship everything will follow. And your relationship will surely be safe. The secret of a relationship with s strong foundation is a relationship with GOD in the center. Let Him be the center of every relationship. You can overcome everything that might come your way. Just have FAITH!

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Happy Reading!! Godbless  us all!!

SARANGOLA

Minsan ang buhay ay parang Sarangola, hinahayaan natin na may magpalipad sa atin. Masaya nga naman tignan na habang lumilipad ka ay merong isang tao na hawak hawak ang isang parte ng iyong pagkatao, may taling nag uugnay sa inyong dalawa. May taling nagdurugtong sa buhay mo at sa buhay nya. Masaya syang pinag mamasdan ka habang lumilipad ka sa ere tangay ng hangin kung sang direksyon ka nito kayang dalhin. Isang taong ginagabayan ka habang tangay ka ng hangin sa direksyon nito.. Masaya hindi ba? Masayang lumipad na alam mong merong umaalalay sa pag lipad mo.

Ngunit paano kung mapagod ka ng lumipad? Paano kung gusto mo ng bumaba? Paano kung gusto mo nag maramdamang hindi na tali lang ang nag uugnay sa inyong dalawa? Paaano kung ang kamay na nya ang gusto mong umalalay sayo? Ngunit pano kung masaya pa syang paliparin ka? Masaya pa bang lumipad kung ayaw mo na? Masaya pa bang lumipad sa hangin habang ang puso mo'y gusto ng dumapo sa palad nya? Paano ka bababa kung di mo alam kung kailan ka nya i bababa?

Magpapatangay ka nalang ba sa hangin hanggang sa ibaba ka nya? Minsan gusto nating bumaba na ngunit hindi pa sya handang ibaba ka. May pag kakataong pinababayaan mo na lang na tangayin ka ng hangin hanggat gusto nito. Ngunit Paano kung biglang nasanay ka na sa itaas? At bigla mo maramdamang okey ka na, nasanay ka ng mag isang lumipad? Pano kung natuto ka ng mag isa at hindi mo na kailangan ng iba?

Madalas hindi natin hawak ang pag kakataon, Ni hindi natin alam kung ano ang ibibigay ng panahon. Hindi natin hawak ang hangin kung kailan ito mag papalit ng direksyon. Pano kung biglang lumakas ang ihip nito habang lumilipad ka. At biglang naputol ang taling nag uugnay sa inyong dalawa? Pano kung sa pag kakataong iyon nilipad ka ng hangin sa ibang dako ng sitwasyon? At biglang may isang Taong nakakita at biglang inangkin ka, dumating ka sa puntong gusto mo na din na sya na ang mag may-ari sayo. Ngunit sa kabilang dako hinanap at nakita ka ng dating may hawak sayo.
Kanino ka sasama? Sa Taong napagod ka nag mag hintay? O sa Taong handa ng ibigay sayo ang kanyang buhay?

Minsan ang buhay ay parang sarangola, hindi mo hawak ang direksyon ng hangin, minsan kailangan pang maputol ang tali mo bago matauhan ang taong may hawak ng tali mo.